Wednesday, February 8, 2012

Meme - Borrowed from Tyffany

1)ONE OF YOUR SCARS. HOW DID YOU GET IT?The only really scar visible to others is on my leg, from when I tried to shave for the first time and slid the razor down the side of my knee. I think I was eleven, Of course, I do have my c-section scar which shall remain hidden forever.
2) WHAT IS ON THE WALLS OF YOUR BEDROOM? Nothing
3) WHAT DOES YOUR MOBILE PHONE LOOK LIKE?It's a purple Blackberry and it’s worth less than the $30 we paid for it.
4) WHAT MUSIC DO YOU LISTEN TO?70s and piano instrumentals
5) DO YOU KNOW WHAT TIME YOU WERE BORN?
5:45 a.m. My poor mother. What a night she must have had.
6) WHAT DO YOU WANT MORE THAN ANYTHING RIGHT NOW?
My children’s success and happiness
7) WHO DO YOU MISS? My children
8) IS ANYONE IN LOVE WITH YOU OR HAS A CRUSH ON YOU?
I hope in love.
9) WHO WAS THE LAST PERSON YOU KISSED?
My wife.
10) WHAT IS YOUR MIDDLE NAME?Ann, but I changed it to my maiden name.
11) THE BEST TV SHOW EVER CREATED?
Right now I’m thinking Everwood. I didn’t want it to end. MASH is a close second.
12) THE LAST PERSON YOU TALKED TO?My wife.
13) DO YOU GET SCARED IN THE DARK?No
14) THE LAST PERSON TO MAKE YOU CRY?No one MAKES me cry.
15) WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE COLOGNE/PERFUME?Tou se Moi (sp?)
16) WHAT KIND OF HAIR/EYE COLOR DO YOU LIKE IN THE OPPOSITE SEX?Green eyes. Hair color will make no difference.
17) WOULD YOU RATHER BE SMART OR FUNNY?
Smart
18) COFFEE OR ENERGY DRINKS?
Neither
19) WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE PIZZA TOPPING?
Mushrooms
20) IF YOU COULD EAT ANYTHING RIGHT NOW, WHAT WOULD IT BE?
A shrimp fire cracker roll from H.E.B.
21) WHO IS THE LAST PERSON WHO MADE YOU MAD?
Probably a student
22) DO YOU SPEAK ANOTHER LANGUAGE?
Yes, Spanish.
23) WHAT WAS THE FIRST GIFT THAT YOU REMEMBER SOMEONE GIVING YOU?I remember getting my first record album. It was a Partridge Family album I received on my birthday in fourth grade.
24) DO YOU LIKE SOMEONE?
Of course.
25) ARE YOU DOUBLE JOINTED?
No
26) FAVORITE CLOTHING BRAND?
Gloria Vanderbilt jeans
27) WHAT IS YOUR DREAM CAR?
Jeep Wrangler
28) WHAT COLOR IS IT?
Doesn’t matter
29) WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE KIND OF EXERCISE?
Clogging
30) WOULD YOU FALL IN LOVE KNOWING THAT THE PERSON IS LEAVING?
Not if I could help it.
31) WHAT IS THE BEST WAY TO TELL SOMEONE HOW MUCH THEY MEAN TO YOU?
Show them affection, let them know they mean the world to you.
32) WRITE A NUMBER FROM ONE TO A HUNDRED
99
33) BLONDES OR BRUNETTES?
34) WHAT IS THE ONE NUMBER YOU CALL THE MOST OFTEN?
My wife’s
35) WHAT ANNOYS YOU MOST?
Unkind people
36) HAVE YOU BEEN OUT OF THE COUNTRY? WHERE DID YOU GO? WHAT PLACE DID YOU LIKE BEST?
Canada and Mexico. Cozumel is wonderful. Canada was beautiful.
37) YOUR WEAKNESSES?
Right now, food.
38) FRIES/CHIPS, RICE OR BEANS?
Fries and rice
39) FIRST JOB?
I worked at the Nut Hut in the middle of a mall. Lots of crank calls.
40) EVER PRANK CALLED SOMEONE?
Yes, and got caught, too. Also, two older girls somehow got a hold of David Hennessy’s phone number (from Dark Shadows) and got me to dial the phone. It was long distance, to California, of course. They got in trouble; I didn’t. I was about seven or eight at the time.
41) WHAT WERE YOU DOING BEFORE YOU FILLED OUT THIS?
Changing an A/C filter and starting laundry
42) IF YOU COULD GET PLASTIC SURGERY, WHAT WOULD IT BE?
Liposuction, baby!
43) WHY DID YOU FILL OUT THIS MEME?
Because my life is boring and I don’t have anything else to blog about.
44) WHAT DO YOU GET COMPLIMENTED ON THE MOST?
My hair or nails.
45) WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF ALCOHOL BECAME ILLEGAL?
Go insane.
46) WHAT DO YOU WANT FOR YOUR BIRTHDAY?
Kindle cards
47) HOW MANY KIDS DO YOU WANT?
The two I have
48) WERE YOU NAMED AFTER ANYONE?
My maternal grandmother
49) WHICH FINGER IS YOUR FAVORITE?
Huh?
50) DO YOU WISH ON STARS?Not anymore. It doesn't work.
51) WHAT WAS THE LAST THING YOU ATE?
Wheat Thin Fire Roasted Tomato Stix
52) DO YOU LIKE YOUR HANDWRITING?
If I take my time, yes.
53) WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE LUNCH MEAT?
Salami, but I never eat it.
54) ANY BAD HABITS?
There are too many to name.
55) WHAT IS YOUR MOST EMBARRASSING CD ON THE SHELF?
Wynonna Judd
56) IF YOU WERE ANOTHER PERSON, WOULD YOU BE FRIENDS WITH YOU?
Maybe
57) HAVE YOU EVER TOLD A SECRET THAT YOU SWORE NOT TO TELL?
I’m sure I have, yes.
58) DO LOOKS MATTER?
Yes.
59) YOU RELEASE YOUR ANGER?Not in healthy ways.
60) WHERE IS YOUR SECOND HOME?
I don’t have one right now.
61) Do you trust others easily?
No
62) What was your favorite toy as a child?
I really liked my roller skates and my softball pitchback.
63) How many numbers are in your mobile phone?
Around 20
.64) Do you use sarcasm?
Yes, and it gets me in trouble.
65) Do you know anyone famous?
No, I used to know Kenny Roger’s oldest sister, but she went with the ex.
66)Have you ever been in a mosh pit?No.
67) What do you look for in a place to live?
A doggy door
68) What are your nicknames?
Hey, you.
69) How many hats do you own? What is your hat size?I have around seven. One size fits all.
70) Do you untie your shoes when you take them off?
No.
71) Were you upset about Steve Irwin dying?
Yes, but surprisingly had never watched him. I was a more of a Jack Hanna fan.
72) What is your favorite ice cream flavor?
Mint Chocolate Chip or Chocolate Peanut Butter
73)Are you lazy?
Yes.
74) What are your favorite songs at the moment?
Endless Love
75) What is your favorite band?
Sugarland or Rascal Flatts
76) How many wisdom teeth do you have?
Mine have never come in.
77) Do you want to go anywhere special this year?
The new Galveston Pleasure Pier, the new section of Schlitterbaun in New Braunfels.
78) What are you listening to right now?
MASH in the background
79) Last thing you ate?
Didn’t I already answer that question?
80) Last person you talked to on the phone?
My wife.
81) What is the first thing that you notice about yourself in the morning?
My hair sticking up.
82) Favorite thought provoking song?
I Loved You Before I Met You

83) Favorite two things to hate?
Traffic and the alarm clock
84) Favorite Drink?
Diet Cherry Coke
85) Favorite Zodiac sign?
None,
86) Sports you like to watch?
Football, hockey, baseball
87) What is your hair color?brown with blonde highlights at the moment

88) Eye color?Hazel
89) Do you wear glasses?
Unfortunately, yes.
90) Siblings?
Younger brother
91) Favorite month?
October
92) Do you like sushi?
I like sashimi. It’s cooked.
93) Last thing you watched on television?
Parenthood
94) Favorite day of the year?
No day in particular
95) Are you too shy to ask someone out?
No
96) Summer or Winter?
Summer
97) Kisses or hugs?
Both, I guess.
98) Relationships or One night stands?Relationships.
99) Who is your favorite celebrity?
Don’t really have a favorite.1
00) Books you'd like to see turned into a film?
“Can’t Wait to Get to Heaven”

Wordless Wednesday



Monday, January 16, 2012

Anothe Day Off

I guess 17 days off should have been enough, but, boy, was I happy that we got off for MLK Day! I needed it. I know most of you probably think my life is boring; well, it sometimes is. Here are some things that have recently happened in my life:

1. I have been watching Chopped religiously and trying to make new things from scratch. I have had some successes and a few failures in that area. When J and I ate shrimp and cheese grits in Gruene last month, I took a mental note of how they tasted and tried to recreate the dish on my own. It tasted great, albeit it needed more salt. I must say that the presentation was awesome. J took a picture of it on her phone, but it wouldn't forward to e-mail or text. Dang.

2. I have been learning about my Kindle Fire and what it can do, which I admit has gotten me in a bit of trouble. I have started playing Words with Friends, downloaded games, a scanner and a radio app, and today I downloaded my first book, The Hunger Games. I can already tell that I will be reading a lot more with my Kindle. I love the lightweight feel of it in my hand and not having to turn each page. Love the multi-tasking. Today, I actually played Pinball while getting a pedicure at the same time! I also downloaded some magazines, The Writer and Curve.

3. I have decided that if I don't have a teaching job for next year, I would like to work with the elderly in some way. I came to this realization after spending time with my 95-yr-old grandmother and her friends every other weekend. I don't feel that my job is secure due to enrollment issues for next year, so I must be prepared.

4. I am leaving work tomorrow at 10 a.m. to be with my daughter as she battles for financial aid.

5. I watched a total of 15 minutes of Sunday's Texans game; I couldn't take the stress of it all.

6. I reorganized the kitchen yesterday; it was getting out of hand. Now we can find all the lids to the tupperware containers and styrofoam cups don't fall on my head when I open the cabinet door to get a recipe.

7. Only one person has rsvp'ed for game night, AGAIN, but I am going to keep trying. Maybe we should switch to another night.

8. J started a new paralegal job last week (yay), but this week started with a migraine today (ouch).

Only two months to spring break! Hope you all have a fantastic week!

~b~

Friday, December 30, 2011

We're Back

You guys saw photos of the cottage we stayed in. It was adorable. Next time, though, we will be sure to get one with a standing shower, not a handheld shower. There IS a difference!

This first two photos were taken on the front porch of the cottage.






This is us with my old college roommate, the one who kept me in line while I was away from J for a year. If you're ever in San Marcos, Texas, you must stop at Grin's for a burger!






This is me with our high school band director. She taught me the love of music and was one of the best marching band directors in the south, I believe, probably the country. This picture was taken in historic Gruene, Texas. A visit to the Gristmill Restaurant on the Guadalupe River is an absolute must. I loved my Rainbow Trout!


J and I wish you a happy and healthy 2012!






Wednesday, December 28, 2011

We are off to the Hill Country for a few days! Nothing like reminiscing to lift the holiday blues!!! We are staying at a cottage in Gruene, Texas. Check it out!

Thursday, December 15, 2011


I loved this game. I can still remember dropping the ball down the chimney and watching it roll down the staircase. I would drop it over and over and over again for what seemed like hours. What, did I think something different would happen? It could only go four ways.

I loved putting the board together. I remember once when I wasn't gentle enough, I tore the end of one of the panels. After that, I had to be careful attaching that panel to the board so it wouldn't rip any more. The things you remember as a child.

My Daughter, The Songtress



Here's a song K18 is planning to record with her BFF. Their duo is called Pink Lemonade. Take a listen. They have a FB page. K18 is on the left.

Monday, December 12, 2011

Four and a Half More Days


On Friday afternoon, I will be free until 2012! Look for a post on my Around and Around blog for an update. I am so ready for the Christmas season to be OVER!!!

Monday, December 5, 2011

Sunday, December 4, 2011

In Public

J and I went to our first Houston Texans game today and it was great! She won the tickets at work; they were on field level. It was fantastic because the Texans won again; they are in first place for the first time in franchise history. But something else made the day even greater.

The seats were so close together that sitting in our seats with our hands in our laps was basically out of the question, so she spent most of the game with her arm around me - in public!!! You probably think nothing of this, but let me tell you that J NEVER shows public displays of affection - EVER!

While we were sitting there, I went back in time. In the 1980's, even if our seats had been so close together, she would have found a way to have not put her arm around me, even if it killed her. We were that scared to be found out. She would not have, like she did today, grabbed on to me in the crowd to keep us from getting separated. If she would have been caught doing either of the above, we would have been sent home from high school or possibly kicked out of the college dorm. It just wasn't acceptable.

Today, I looked at the people beside us and behind us, and they were all grinning. They were having a good time; they could have cared less that we were obviously a couple. I love living life with J in the year 2011!

Tuesday, November 29, 2011

What's New Pussycat?

Whoa whoa whoa... whoa.

I haven't really posted much about our lives lately. Here are ten things happening with us:

1. I am now down to one job (teaching) and consulting work (home education) as requested. I officially turned in my keys and security card to my old boss today. I am so glad that chapter of my life is over. J filled in at his office for three weeks until he hired a replacement for my replacement. Long story that I can't blog about. J is now working two contract jobs; one is from home.

2. I have been "in charge" of the upper elementary class this week while the lead teacher is out of the country training other Montessorians. Things are going really well. I actually feel more relaxed while she's away, I guess because I can do things my way - and they are working! Before she left, she gave me permission to try some new procedures to manage the class of thirty-five 4th, 5th, and 6th graders. Not sure what's going to happen when she returns next week. Will she keep my changes or not? Our assistant says she will "back me up." We shall see. I'll keep you posted on that one.

3. J and I would like to visit Savannah, Georgia during the Christmas holidays. Anyone have suggestions about what to do there?

4. My girls were away for Thanksgiving to see the ex's family in Arkansas. Missed them so much. Not sure when I will see them again. Probaly at the hospital (see next item).

5. I am going to be an aunt one week from today! My first time ever, a baby girl. They are naming her Abigail - calling her Abbi.

6. The T.V. shows I have been watching are: Parenthood, Harry's Law (not my favorite), The Closer, Rizzoli & Isles, Chopped, Next Iron Chef, Survivor (barely getting through it), and, of course, The Amazing Race! We don't watch many shows at their appointed time. The DVR has become my best friend. I am really interested in watching Being Chaz and I am Jazz. They are taped for when time allows. I also have a Dr. Phil episode on cults taped. I have always found the subject of cults fascinating.

7. Did you ever notice that when you order an old sitcom from Netflix, it doesn't turn out to be as good as you thought it was the first time? Some clunkers have been: The Lucy Show, My Three Sons Season 1, Ellen Season 1, Love Boat, and Fantasy Island. I mean, how did we watch this garbage? We are going to try Ellen Season 2 next.

8. I worked on my novel a bit over the holidays. Thanks to my readers who joined my Facebook page for Reverse Skate. I appreciate the support.

9. My car will be one year old on December 30th. I am almost at 1,000 miles.

10. My paternal grandma turned 95 on November 1st, and my maternal grandmother will be turning 93 in March.

Well, it's time to get my creative writing lessons done for tomorrow. I hope all my American readers had a great Thanksgiving!

Monday, November 21, 2011

Please Throw Me Some Balls!

To the cashier at the grocery store yesterday: I got over the fact that you ripped the bottle of wine right out of my hand and exclaimed, "You can't buy that before noon!" And I am happy to say that none of my eggs were broken after you slammed the 6-pack of Cokes on top of them. Neener neener. Be glad I didn't report you.

I was so angry yesterday at the store, I had to call J and ask her to calm me down. The last time I remember being angry in public was at the same grocery chain, different location. The cashier thought J and I were trying to steal some 2-liter diet sodas and it was downhill after that. I know there is a blog post about this somewhere. We really should have reported the jerk. What keeps me from reporting people ? I always want to give people the benefit of the doubt and say that maybe they are having a bad day.

It's not like I don't have time to go to the manager, although my cold groceries might suffer. I simply do not like confrontations. Okay. Truth. I am AFRAID of confrontations. I think this is something I need to conquer. I am feeling the urge to write to the store after the fact. Will it do any good? Probably not, but I think it might make me feel better.

The only time I remember getting vocally angry in a store was when I was at Circuit City for the umpteenth time, trying to get them to help me with the piece of crap they sold me; they called it a computer. Me and a friend of mine stood at the entrance of customer service at the front of the store, and as people walked in, I said to them, "You don't want to buy anything here!!!" If my friend had not been with me, I wouldn't have done it. I need balls. How do I get them??

Today I was supposed to come in for an hour or so to train the replacement for my replacement (that's another blog entry altogether). The girl called in sick, and I ended up staying the whole day. This was supposed to be my vacation. I was supposed to have gone to get bloodwork today. And now I have been informed by my ex-boss that I need to come in tomorrow to train the girl. It's her fourth day of work and she has managed to be present 1 1/2 days so far. Why can't I just say to him, "You know, this is my vacation. I really hadn't planned to come in this week at all. If she had come in all three days last week like she was supposed to, she would have been almost completely trained by now." I need balls!

Sunday, November 20, 2011

A Humble Plea to My Readers





I have started working on my novel again since I have some time off during the Thanksgiving holidays. I also have two weeks off for Christmas! This is a great time of year for me to write because most of the abuse happened during the holidays. Please take a moment and "like" my Facebook page for Reverse Skate. I could really use the encouragement right now. Feel free to pass the link along to anyone you know who might be interested in reading a story regarding sexual abuse and/or OCD. My goal is to complete the book in 2012. Thanks!

Wednesday, November 16, 2011

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Tuesday, October 11, 2011

Wordless Wednesday



San Antonio Trip 2011

J and I went to San Antonio this weekend for a nic getaway. We stayed at the Menger Hotel, the hotel where Teddy Roosevelt rounded up the Rough Riders. It is said to be haunted by many ghosts, his included. Didn't see any, but here are some photos I took along the way. We had a wonderful time together. Can't wait to go away on our next excursion, possibly to Austin.



The Menger Bar - one of the most popular historic bars in the U.S.


Beautiful Cherrywood!




The Menger as it looks today:





The Menger as it looked years ago:




Bug candy in the gift shop: larvae, crickets, and ants




Telephone booths
J and I at Mi Tierra Cafe and Bakery



House Phones in the Lobby






The View from Our Balcony







Which way to Room 5125?





Me, anxiously waiting for J to say we are on our way to S.A.!!






Thank you, baby, for a wonderful trip I will always remember. Sorry I spilt Diet Dr. Pepper all over the place, including your shoes. The Menger Bar was wonderful and relaxing. The cab rides were fun. Thank you for going to the River Center Mall with me to Primarily Purple. I know it was torture for you. The trip to Gruene was short but sweet. Thank you for the earrings, the keyring and the new traveling hat you picked out especially for me. And, of course, thank you for stopping by San Marcos and Martindale, my favorite places in the entire world, even if they make me cry. I hope our retirement dream comes true one day!




Love,

~B~


P.S. You look beautiful in your purple polo!























Tuesday, October 4, 2011